Does your child seem to overreact when they are poorly or injured? Does every little bump seem like the end of the world or a common cold come across like they are incredibly ill?
Or do they not react at all to illness and bounce around the house with a temperature? Would they break their arm and seem not to notice?
Last night my son all of a sudden had a major meltdown. I had no idea why. I hadn’t seen any build up and had been unable to avoid it. One minute he was happily watching a video on YouTube and the next he was on the floor screaming. In the end I worked it out and the reason was that he has a cold and couldn’t breathe properly through his nose which he struggles to cope with. After a while he was calm enough for me to find some nasal spray and lemsip and eventually I got him to bed.
He gets like this with most sickness. If he feels like he is going to be sick, he screams and screams and cant cope with the feeling. One time we ended up stuck at a toll booth on the way from Miami to Orlando for a good hour waiting for him to calm down because he didn’t feel well.
He also really struggles with wobbly teeth! Fortunately he is nearly out of baby teeth now because the meltdowns due to wobbly teeth can be multiple daily until the tooth is gone!
My son is the opposite when he hurts himself. Light touch can be painful to him so someone stroking his arm would hurt, however if he ran into a door frame and banged his head really hard, he wouldn’t even react because he wouldn’t feel it.
There are other autistic children who don’t seem to even notice if they are sick at all. Their parents say they can have a high temperature and still be running round the house. If they fell and hurt themselves they would seem not to notice.
It all comes down to sensory processing. Some people have difficulties processing the information about their senses sent to their brains. Some children with sensory processing difficulties will under react to sensory input. This means they end up needing and seeking more stimulation in order to function. Other children’s brains over react to sensory input so they end up avoiding it or becoming overwhelmed.
If you want to understand a little more how your child processes sensory things then I would suggest having a read of this article. It can depend on a child’s sensory processing how they interpret and react to sickness and injury.
This is why my son appears to be completely overreacting to having a common cold. It isn’t his fault at all, in fact to him the cold is so much worse than it would be to me. Every symptom is magnified to the extent that it is causing him great distress. He is becoming overwhelmed very easily and is constantly on edge. My strategy to get through this cold is lots of patience and understanding that to him it feels terrible.
How does your child react to being poorly or injured? How do you help when they are in that situation? Let us know in the comments.
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